Thursday, December 31, 2020

Hero of This Whacky Year

I have written a bit already about the laudable character that Shauna displayed this year, but for a brief moment, I pause to honour her as my Hero of This Whacky Year.

She was just settling into her new role as executive director (manager) of a brand new retirement home when the pandemic came upon us. 

It is an independent home, not one of the big conglomerates with all sorts of corporate direction and support, so she was largely on her own. The usual, hands-on owner of the facility is a doctor, who was obliged to spend much time at the hospital, sometimes weeks at a time, largely leaving her as sole leader. But she is a clever and competent lady and triumphed through it all.

She managed her residents with understanding and efficiency by explaining and implementing the new rules which seemed to change on an almost daily basis for months. Not all of the clients could readily understand the need for the restrictions, such as no visits into the outside world, no visitors in the home for a time, and then highly restricted visits when the situation ameliorated for a time before the second wave inundated us.  However, Sha worked through the situation with grace and charity.

Under her supervision, the residence did remarkably well. The only COVID case they experienced was with a worker who contracted the virus outside of the residence, caught it early, and didn't spread it to a single person. Of course, that meant a fourteen-day, precautionary lockdown in which the old folk were confined to their rooms, but she, her team, and the residents sailed through what could have been a difficult-to-enforce ordeal. I recall one photo of her delivering meals in an Hawaiian outfit in one of the many special attempts to boost morale.

You already know of her most significant act, that of sending her children to live with their father. Shauna realized how vulnerable homes like hers were, and indeed, there were outbreaks in many of them. Therefore,  for two months, she gave up her children for their safety.

You have already seen a version of this photo of the three of them embracing on the front steps upon their homecoming, but I think it is powerful and worth repeating.

Shauna has been a gem with us as well and may have even been more concerned over our welfare than we have been if that is possible. To wit: just before Christmas, she chose to celebrate her birthday without us and without much ado, with no cake or special meal together but just a brief cyber get-together. Then, on Christmas Day, she kept her visit to us brief and distanced and let ker kids spend the bulk of the day with us after keeping them in isolation for a week prior. She was also instrumental in arranging the sleepovers that we were able to have with both of them, one night with the two of them together, and another with each separately, for a total of three nights. What a blessing!

I think it is quite evident by now that she deserves the title of Hero of This Whacky Year.




18 comments:

Patio Postcards said...

I raise a glass to your daughter, with many thanks to keeping her family & the residences of the senior home, safe & healthy. Maybe she can spend time educating our elected leaders to how it should be done!

Cheers Shauna & thank you. Happy New Year!

DJan said...

I agree that she deserves recognition for her wonderful work. You really have made it obvious that she is very special to many. Congratulations to Shauna for her award. :-)

Barbara Rogers said...

Excellent choice...my vote would be for her as well. So glad you all have weathered 2020 as well as can be expected. Hope this next one is 100% better for all!

Christina said...

Shauna sounds like an amazing woman, someone to be immensely proud of. I am feeling a bit tearful reading your post, it is such a beautiful homage to a beloved daughter.

P.S. I think I remember the photo you shared earlier, when she was wearing the Hawaiian shirt at work.

gigi-hawaii said...

What a wonderful person she is! She has strong moral character and lots of kindness and compassion, too. You and your wife are so blessed to have her.

MARY G said...

100% agree. She is a clear star in an often cloudy sky.

Margaret said...

She is smart, careful and loving. What a treasure indeed!

Beatrice P. Boyd said...

Shauna richly deserves the honor you have given her both in her caring for the nursing home residents and her own family. The photo of her and your grandchildren reuniting was heartfelt. her decisions have been tough ones, but thankfully everyone has been safe and hope it continues to be so as 2021 will undoubtedly get off to a slow healing start.

Mage said...

Yes, a very smart lady, great mom and daughter. She get's my vote.

Red said...

You have every right to be very proud of your daughter. The people she looks after are fortunate to have her.

PipeTobacco said...

Shauna did an excellent job and made hard but safe choices!!!! Very, very good! Here is wishing you and your family an excellent 2021!!!!

PipeTobacco

Joanne Noragon said...

I agree. Shauna managed this unhappy year like a true professional.

Debby said...

A toast to your girl. Covid has hit our nursing homes here, and it's grim. Very grim.

Karen said...

Congratulations to your daughter on a job well done. She deserves a big bouquet of roses!
My youngest daughter is an administrator in a big homeless shelter in Toronto.
I have nothing but strong admiration for these youngsters we tossed out into the world. I often shed a tear for them.

peppylady (Dora) said...

There a lot of hero and helper that got lot people though 2020.
Coffee is on and stay safe

Rita said...

She deserves the honor!! Absolutely!! :)

Kay said...

Oh my gracious! What an amazing young woman Shauna is. That retirement home clients are so lucky to have her taking care of them. I just wish everybody was as self sacrificing, loving and responsible as your precious daughter.

Heather said...

Lovely and most deserved tribute, AC, to one of the most remarkable women in the universal universe!!!!!!!!!!!