We had Sha and the kids over for Monday supper. I baked chicken in a sauce of hoisin, hickory bbq sauce, lemon juice, gingerroot, and a bit of chili powder. We served it with rice and corn. It's a pretty good dish.
But the kids didn't think so.
They have unique taste buds, they do.
They scraped the sauce off the chicken and didn't care for the rice.
Then, JJ didn't want the lemony coffee cake for dessert. At least Danica did. JJ seldom eats desserts unless it's brownies. He doesn't care for chocolate bars or the like, but he does like his Skittles. Danica loves ice cream, but JJ cares not for it.
The Christmas and Thanksgiving feasts are almost pointless. The kids don't prefer either stuffing or gravy, but I have loved the turkey feast for as long as I can remember, and even farther back apparently— to the point where I am told that I called the stuffing, turkey.
Danica will have a salad without any dressing whatsoever. I pretty well need it to be smothered in order to make it semi palatable.
The kids don't like pop, but I always loved it, even though it was seldom available at our house.
They like raw carrots, as does Sue, but I only eat carrots that are roasted to the point where they no longer taste like carrots.
It's pretty much like all of life. Nobody can help what they look like, whom they were born to, what their intelligence happens to be, or what talents and abilities they have . . . or lack. Me? I like to sing, but I am not very good at it. Especially now in older age. What a pity, especially for Sue's ears as this atheist belts with fervour the gospel songs from his youth.
Although I had no clue that I would get around to free will in this post, but you also can't help what ancillary thoughts creep into your brain. But I tell you that people don't have the free will that they think they have. There's a whole lot of programming that we didn't choose. In point of fact, there's not much that wasn't pre-programmed, even what we prefer in a mate.
But back to the dilemma of what do we cook for family dinner? Second child is coming for a visit in a few weeks and likes my meat loaf. First child doesn't. I don't know about the kids because I don't cook meat loaf for family dinners because of Shauna, but I am guessing the kids won't like it either.
Shauna also doesn't like ham while Sue doesn't care for pork chops. It's hard to pig out at our house. (See what I did there?)
Meanwhile, Sue can only get me to eat cauliflower when she coats it with mayo so that cheese will stick to it while she bakes and then broils it.
Now I reminded that I bought some hot dogs. JJ will eat those. Sue won't. I must bbq them whilst the weather remains favourable. (Note: we had snow on this date last year.)
Did I tell you that I like fat? I am happy with a piece of roast beef with some fat attached. Just about everyone I know gags at the thought and trims their meat assiduously. Relatedly, I love turkey skin when it comes out of the oven. There's so much flavour there. Once again, I am pretty well on my own although memory informs me that Sue's sister likes it too. She's the only other person of my acquaintance, I think.
And life goes on. No wonder I am eternally perplexed and confused.