Today, Danica wakes up differently than ever before. Yesterday, she moved into what will be her residence for the school year: a room in a house in Ottawa, shared with three other girls women.
You may recall that she commuted to Carlton U for her freshman year. You may also recall that her car got totalled near the very end on last semester when exams were almost finished. Since there will be no possibility of commuting this year, she will be staying in the city, just a bus ride from campus. I think, however, that she would probably have made the move regardless of the car situation, for it seems to be a natural progression.
The semester won't begin for another two weeks, but she has landed a part-time job at the university store where students may purchase books and other paraphernalia. Today is a training day, but she doesn't yet know the rest of her schedule.
She'll be up early, going outside to the bus stop, and travelling to campus. I am not sure if she has been on city bus before, but she will manage because she is a grown woman.
On Sunday, we stopped by to give her this last-minute card because Sue thought of her own experience of standing at bus stops in the rain in Toronto at that age.
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My eldest started her third year in college yesterday. She has yet to buy a single book her entire time there. Everything is online these days.
ReplyDeleteAnd I guess you can underline and hilite with the right software.
DeleteI am blown away by the notes my daughter has shown me. Not only does it highlight, but it hyperlinks to the appropriate pages!
DeleteSo young and beautiful. This will be another milestone crossed for both you and Dani.
ReplyDeleteMilestone came to mind, too like Sandra's comment. We have a ways to go before our first grandchild heads to college. She's just entering 7th grade tomorrow. What is Danica majoring in?
ReplyDeleteShe has an interest in Law, but I am not sure that she will take it to Law level.
DeleteDanica is beautiful. I wish her all the best.
ReplyDeleteYour family is just extended further miles. With phones to text and call, you all can stay in touch more easily these days...though of course being on her own will be a wonderful adventure for Danica! Grandpa will cope - he's done it before I bet!
ReplyDeleteAh, yes she can do it! She's got her whole family behind her.
ReplyDeleteExciting times for the whole family.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness, that's really a special time in a young lady's life, for her parents and also her grandparents. Loved the photos and I wish you and Sue many happy visits to see her at campus.
ReplyDeleteThis reminds me of when my daughter moved to Montreal (from Alberta!) to complete her undergrad and then do her Masters. So, so far from home. Sigh.
ReplyDeleteBut similar to my daughter, I'm excited for your granddaughter. And for you, because even though there's more physical distance, and understandably, a bit of grief, this relationship seems just as important to her as it is to you and Sue. The future looks good.
Oh boy! Does this bring back memories of when we sent our boys off to university. I don’t think I handled nearly as well, however. There were a few tears shed.
ReplyDeleteHer new adventure truly begins. She is so pretty. My mom always made sure we had whistles with us too. Nice that she has a job already. Thanks for the update on this very lovely young lady.
ReplyDeleteWhen my son drove off to college, two hours away, he always called my youngest about a half hour out to find out if I was still crying. It is such a jolt, but somehow, it becomes normal.
ReplyDeleteYou are making this transition a fun time. I wish the young woman a very successful year.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful and touching post! Progression into new stages is normal, but it does hurt our heart sometimes. The best to Danica on this new adventure!
ReplyDeleteMake sure she gets an umbrella. My first college umbrella has lasted 54 years! You're supposed to send boxes of cookies in the mail monthly. Linda in Kansas
ReplyDeleteIt's hard to see them grow and go, but it's the natural course of events. The relationship changes subtly. I hope Danica has a wonderful year, and good friends in her housemates.
ReplyDeleteAw, it is hard letting them go. You have been blessed to have had them near, and to be a big part of their lives. I feel sure that will continue, no matter where they land.
ReplyDeleteWhat a big deal that is! And I loved the umbrella and whistle gifts. Just perfect. A new chapter for Danica and I hope it is wonderful!
ReplyDeleteIt is so exciting, and a paradigm shift for me.
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