Lacey is an aloof puss although you wouldn't think that from these pics.
She loves her treats, and I have used them to get her comfortable to be with me on my recliner. This remains the only spot where she will visit a lap, but I get protracted visits both morning and evening.
She accepts petting here and even seems to enjoy it. But pretty well only here although I can get away with little petting in a few other spots.
But in this chair, she will snuggle down for quite a long time.
The main problem with this is that she pins down my right arm each and every time, which is limiting. In the first pic below, you can see my right hand, for I am right-handed, struggling to access the keyboard of my tablet. It's a recurring theme. You can't see it in the photo, but there is a little table on the right where I can keep my coffee among other things. But, oh no, I can't get to it and must revert to putting it on the floor to my left.
When I was first taming her, I would put a treat on my shoulder, and she would retrieve it. It remains a goto spot.