Saturday, July 19, 2025

Fie

Fie on't! Oh fie fie! 'Tis an unweeded garden
That grows to seed;

I was sure that I posted about our northern neighbour last year, but, of course, \ I couldn't find the evidence. However, every year until this year, she has purchased at least one new flower pot and hung it proudly from her little porch. And every year, she neglected to water it — at all! It dried and died in short order. This year, wisely, she put in a fake fern, but there are still neglected pots on the ground below.

So much for the northern neighbour, but we have a new southern neighbour. She's a teacher in her first house. We were expecting to see the pride of home ownership displayed. Well, there definitely is some pride, for she planted nice flowers in a bed out front, and she planted a nice row of flowers in a little raised border along her back fence. But then, she hasn’t maintained her plots well.

I splash a little water on her front patch when I am out giving my plants a drink, so it is doing alright. But that poor back border!

To be fair, her property hadn't been well tended for awhile, so it was already weedy. She and her friend did weed the raised border between the bricks and fence ↓ before planting, but the roots were there and the weeds grew back very rapidly. She made an effort to weed again, and you might possibly discern that the weeds in the very centre of the border are slightly less large than the others. But she and her helpers didn't get very far before they abandoned the project, and there has been no further work — not even watering.


We had also hoped that a new, young, fit neighbour would maintain the front lawn, most of which is hers. After my last mowing in early June, we informed her that I would be unable to mow until almost August. It got pretty ratty before she mowed, but she did mow — once. So, dear Sue has got down on the ground and at least trimmed the edges several times. 

That being said, I was, however, pleasantly surprised when I checked the easement outside of our back fences but, technically, within our property boundaries. For 20 years, I have been the only one to attend to the easement. Somebody has to do it, or at least should do it. Lo and behold, when I recently checked, she has mowed her patch.

Mine and even more so our northern neighbour is a different story. I last mowed six weeks ago before surgery, and it's awful. The weeds have taken over.

However, the most egregious issue is the bushes of trees or whatnot that are growing  behind the northern property. They emanate from growth on her backyard side of the fence. I can do the mowing, but I will have to get JJ to help with the bushes, which have escaped from her side of the fence. 

Isn't that awful?

The question becomes, once we have cut down the bushes should I just toss the debris into her backyard, or should I transport it all to the town yard for recycling. While she deserves to have the debris tossed into her yard, we would have to look at it for however long, maybe even until kingdom come.

Next week, I will be out of my recovery period and on one bright day will doubtless be out there mowing my back section ... and hers.


14 comments:

  1. I'd really dislike this kind of setup, relying on other people to do the maintenance in their turn. Where I live it's clear who does what and I like it better. I'd have thought there were municipal expectations about weeds.

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  2. It's a dilemma, to be sure. (I'm sure this summer while I'm away the neighbors are feeling that about me! Rick ended up at home yesterday and mowed the lawn for the first time in three weeks! He said it wasn't too bad but I'm not sure I believe him!)

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    1. The grass does grow very slowly at this time of year, so it was probably acceptable.

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  3. It’s too bad people won’t do their bit. Frustrating!

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  4. This reminds me of that old adage ... you cannot pick your neighbours. We have similar "concerns" with one neighbour. I often wonder why do people who have no interest in maintaining their yard have a home anyway.

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  5. Everywhere there is this situation it seems. I drive through our town --> 10 miles from my house and some houses are so well taken care of as is their yards, then there are disaster areas too. This town does have fines for not taking care of your yard. Left long enough and the city will mow it and send a bill.

    That last bit could be a neat path if mowed down the center and trim back the bushes. It would look like a nice wildthing trail.

    I wonder if some of the others just don't think much about going the extra effort it takes to make a house beautiful outside. Makes you wonder about the inside.

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  6. I am the scofflaw with our front porches. I haven't planted anything on mine in two years now, but it doesn't seem to bother other people. My next door neighbor has a well tended porch, which I enjoy and feeling just a bit guilty for not doing my part.

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    1. No plants are fine, but those who choose to have them should take care of them.

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  7. Nature doesn't like mowed and pristine trimmed edges...just people. But since we build boxes to live in, and little plots of grass and chosen flowers, we must do the jobs of maintenance. I am lucky to sweep the dropped geranium petals away from my porch, since otherwise I'd track them inside and stain the floors. I do water pretty regularly, the plants that don't receive natural rain. When I haven't done so, it's usually because I'm sick. So sorry you have to take up other's levels of responsibilities.

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  8. What a pity we cannot specify the neighbours we would like. We are lucky with ours though we are probably the ones to cause complaints!

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  9. Yes weeds from a neighbour's garden can be pesky but we'd rather pull them up as they arrive than let them over run our garden.. We have a hedge on the side of our drive which we make sure doesn't grow too much our neighbour's side, how ever his weedy fence was leaning over onto our side pathway, which he didn't bother about, so when it snapped with the weight of growth, my husband helped it to fall on his side!

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  10. I don't have neighbors in the sense that they are next-door to me. My lawn is looking like a hay field, I have a couple of downed trees needing to be cut up and moved and a porch that needs painting! Sitting back from the road and surrounded by trees helps a lot. I spent most of my life in a city neighborhood and do fully understand what you mean. Everyone kept their property up. I would not have liked it if there was a mess living next to me.

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    1. At least that back easement is out of sight.

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  11. It would be nice if everyone did his or her part.

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