Saturday, June 21, 2025

Friends of the Cane

We drove into the city to drop off the dodgy monitor. At the store, everyone ahead of us seemed to be having major issues, so we spent what seemed like a long time in line before we could explain our predicament. At least it felt like a long time to my aching back. Once we got to the head of the line, we were met by the fellow who sold us the monitor in the first place.  

He plugged it in, and it worked fine. Of course it did. After much discussion, they accepted it and did the paperwork to send it away. Who knows what will happen next.

From there, it was off to lunch before hitting the Outlet mall. Frequenting malls, especially big ones, is not the kind of thing we do, but Sue’s feet have difficulty with shoes, and there seemed to be shoe outlets aplenty there. We hit the first shoe store, but happiness was not to be found. We both did better in the second store: Sketchers. 

That’s the setup: now to meet the brothers of the cane.

I habitually avoid taking my cane into stores because I have an annoying tendency of leaving it behind., but there was walking to be done in this mall, so I brought it along. 

After we did our browsing and trying on of shoes, I heard another nearby senior muttering something about forgetting his cane in another aisle, so off he went to retrieve it. When he returned, we engaged in conversation. His name is Garry. with two r’s he wanted me to know. Eventually, Sue, ever the observant one, noticed that in addition to each of us porting canes, we were dressed, at least partly, in red and black. Sue, being Sue, bless her, took a picture.


Garry commented on my shoes. He said, being ex-army, he couldn’t be seen wearing shoes like that. I will just leave that with you for the moment and continue with the anecdote.

Once Sue settled on her acquisitions and I on mine, we made our way to the checkout. Garry was ahead of us amd just finishing checking out. He began to walk away from the counter, but I quickly notified him that he was once again forgetting his cane.  How observant of me! On this occasion, I am proud to say that I never forgot mine on this outing. What a clever boy am I.

We met Garry and wifey again outside. There was more talk, and somehow it came to pass that I was to post the photo on FB. Sue gave him my business card, so he could find me online. (I have no business, but I do have a card. Sue carries a few copies around with her own non-business, business card for occasions such as this.)

I don’t post to FB much, but it had been determined that I would post this photo, and I so have done. But I am more keen to tell you the story here on the blogs. Which I have now also done. However, in conclusion, I will also add that Garry found my FB post and commented on my shoes once again, writing that he should also have a pair for the next time we meet,


30 comments:

  1. When I used my cane I always put the wrist strap on. This was mainly to avoid dropping it since I couldn't retrieve it from the floor, but it did stop me from leaving it behind. I've never mastered that with umbrellas.

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  2. It's sandal season for my feet. Except when raining, then into my sneakers and socks I go...(think trainers). I also have walking shoes, but don't seem to be wearing them. I know TMI! Loved that you met another caner. And I do hope your shoe situation has improved.

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  3. Sounds like jolly fun. They DO have those quad bases at some drug stores to replace the original rubber tip piece. I'm not a Physicial Therapist, but from observing them, your cane might need to be a notch taller. You're leaning a bit in the photo, but canes and walkers are supposed to keep you standing straight up. If you visit the U.S., remember your cane: no telling who you'll need to poke. Linda in Kansas

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    1. I agree. I had a PT observe mine and adjust it to higher so I didn't lean.

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    2. Thanks for noticing. We checked today, and I am fine when standing normally or walking. I think I was just doing a very relaxed pose in the photo.

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  4. At our age, any shoe goes -- bright, ugly, orthotic, ridiculous! I love your shoes and wish I could find some like that to work with my orthotics! Isn't it interesting how something like a cane can bring people together? I like the photo and always enjoy those impromptu conversations!

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  5. Pro tip for Sue: I have big trouble with shoes and Skechers are my go to. My most comfortable walking shoes right now are men's! They're cut broad enough for my bumpy old toes, and if you buy two sizes smaller than women's, you'll get a fit. Even women's so called wide size aren't.

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  6. I used to wear Sketchers but I became a fan of Hoka's and now wear them.

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  7. Great story. New friends made! Looking forward to news of your next meet up.

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  8. Wearing a pair of Skecher sandals right now. They are quite comfy. I love impromptu meetings with complete strangers. Looks like you made new friends.

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  9. It seems you converted the military vet to colorful shoes!

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  10. I can't remember the last time that I was in a mall. You got a good story out of your journey.

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  11. My brother wore Sketchers for a long time and I think John has a very comfortable pair. Why did Garry not like yours? They are very attractive!

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    1. I think that might have been the problem for an army guy.

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  12. My bright pink and other wild color shoes got over 500 miles on them so I went to find a replacement pair. I am so happy to have found an even wilder colored pair.
    I love your bright shoes. They sort of define your positive cheery self .

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  13. What a charming encounter. Here's to unexpected camaraderie, matching colours, and the proud fraternity of the forgetful-but-determined cane carriers

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  14. I use a collapsible hiking pole instead of a cane as I tend to stoop with a cane.

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  15. Well
    What a heartwarming and fun story! I love how a simple trip turned into an unexpected friendship with matching canes and colors too! Garry sounds like a character, and the shoe comment cracked me up. Life’s little moments like this really are the best.

    TThanks for your comment on my blog post.
    I really appreciate it

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  16. Chance encounters can be such fun and brighten the day. I laughed at the shoe comment. Perhaps you've helped him to embrace a little colour in his life.
    If you hadn't been able to draw the clock face correctly, would you have been denied your renewed licence? Scary thought!

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  17. Great story! Enjoyed that. Good on you Sue, with your handy camera. Very nice shot.

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  18. The chance meeting was great to read about, a bonding over canes and possibly shoes. Hopefully, Sue did find a suitable and comfortable new pair. I have similar issues and cannot buy shoes without a try on. We have a mall here, and now I am trying to recall the last time I’ve visited.

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  19. For an old guy with a cane the shoes are super cool. Great story. Dad lost a lot of canes in his life.

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  20. Sounds a bit like 'friends of the wheelchair'. Whenever you meet someone else in a chair, even in a scooter, you feel an immediate slight bond and say hello or at least wave.

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  21. Loved this story! Especially that Garry with 2 r's is going to get a colorful pair of shoes too. Go, Garry!
    My go-to shoes are Vionic. I had plantar fascists in both feet and a Morton's neuroma on my right foot, but since wearing Vionics almost exclusively i have had no trouble with either, and it's been at least 10 years, I think.
    I also wear Merrell's, often buying men's more toe room means the necromancer isn't aggravated. But i really want to try Hoka. Everyone is know who wears them swears by their comfort.

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    1. I also have planters, but I manage with Merrill’s outside and now sketchers inside. I don’t have to feet on my feet a lot or for long usually. I don’t know the brands you mentioned, which doesn’t mean they are not around here too.

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  22. It's so much fun to meet new people. I love Sketchers slip-on shoes. I'm noticing you're losing a bit of weight like me.

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  23. Yes, Skechers are a popular choice! So great that you are approachable and friendly. I'm sure for many people you are there most important human contact of the day or even longer. Now I want to go shoe shopping! Aloha

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  24. Oh dear. What a great story. I will add that if Garry cannot remember to grab his cane when he moves around, he most likely does not need that cane, hahaha! And you most likely don't either! But I understand. I'm glad Sue found some good shoes! xoxo

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