He came into my cubicle and told me that it was time to move me to the operating room. Nice guy and a very competent orderly, wheeling me through the narrow doorways and corridors, also taking care to assure me that all would be well.
After recovery whilst in the discharge process with my two ladies, we were receiving instructions about what to do next at home. The same orderly walked past us pushing another gurney.
When he was well past us, the nurse quietly confided to us that the man was 75 years old.
Seventy-five and in the finest of health, conveying usually younger patients (not me) hither, thither and yon.
I reflected that in my lifetime I had encountered two other older fellas who were, shall we say, of compact stature but were spry beyond their years.
Sue's grandfather was one such person. In 1971, we moved our belongings to another city on one of those steamy hot, summer days — one of the hottest days ever in point of fact. Our team consisted of Sue and me, in our early twenties, Sue's 28-year-old brother, Sue’s 40-something father, and her 70-something grandfather. Temperatures soared to 100 degrees as we carried our belongings in the hot sun past the hot, bricked units to the seemingly distant centre of the townhouse complex where we would abide for my first years of teaching..
We four younger ones were all flagging in the heat but not grandpa. He just kept going back and forth and forth and back, carrying this box and that box. When we stopped to rest and replenish our dwindling resources, grandpa just kept going and going.
You guessed it; he was a compact and spry guy and fitter than us young-uns.
I also recalled one more encounter with another older man of similar compact stature.
We were visiting Canyon de Chelly in Arizona, our fourth and final stop before motoring back to Phoenix and flying home. As we drove into the parking lot, a younger couple (we were in our fifties) that we had met at Monument Valley were there and just about to embark on a desert tour with a Navajo guide. Sue readily agreed to join them, thinking that we were about to take a jaunty jeep ride as we had done at Monument Valley. She was quite taken aback to discover that we would be hiking through the desert.
We descended the very steep steps into the canyon and staggered into the hot desert following our compact and spry elderly guide. He required no water as we walked along and no food as we stopped for a shared lunch with our fellow touristy hikers.
Like Sue's grandfather and my hospital orderly, our guide was one of those older guys who still exuded energy and stamina in his compact and spry body.
Grandad, by the way, lived to be 105 years old. In one of the oddities of life, he was buried beside his brother who died at the age of 2. Genetics are a crapshoot.
I often think small guys have the edge in many ways. They're certainly favored by airlines.
ReplyDeleteI never thought about the size of people who have energy. Now I'll be watching those around me! Good thought.
ReplyDeleteIt's nice to be compact and spry. I used to be that way, but in my eighties I'm slowing way down. Good story, AC.
ReplyDeleteYou're right.
ReplyDeleteWe have such fatigue, but we're just hermits here and not inclined to get out.
I've met a few of those myself. Although none of my parents, grandparents or great grandparents really fell into that category, they all, with the exception of my mom, made it to their early 90's. That might be considered good news for me but when I start looking through them, one had a massive stroke, one had Parkinson's, my grandfather was nearly blind and deaf and was longing for death in the end, etc. Only one great grandmother made it to the end relatively intact and went out with a quick and painless heart attack in the middle of the night. So though the odds are probably against me, I hope that is how I spend my final minutes, asleep and dreaming in my early 90's.
ReplyDeleteThis is a very inspiring story. Thank you for sharing this 😊 ❤️
ReplyDeleteMy husband is one of those compact and spry guys! He doesn't stop. The picture of Sue's grandpa reminds me of Tim's Uncle Herman. Long gone from this world, and one could not call him 'compact'. What a power house he was, though. Remembered with great fondness.
ReplyDeleteThey built them tough in those days.
ReplyDeleteRegular folks are the real inspiration. I'm spry-ish, but compact? Not so much.
ReplyDeleteMy Dad was compact and spry and lived to be 100 so maybe there is something in that body type that helps one along.
ReplyDeleteI used to be much more compact and spry than I am now and part of that is pure laziness. I need to make sure I'm out walking and staying active in mostly all weather conditions. I think that generation of people did much more physical activity on a normal basis and I'm sure it helped with their longevity. (many fewer weight issues or health problems stemming from them)
ReplyDeleteMy paternal grandfather was still a powerhouse in his eighties. He slowed down a bit in his nineties and died at 97.
ReplyDelete105 and 2 years old, I did not see that coming. Compact and spry, I like the sound of that!
ReplyDeleteAnd so you got some photos of the 'monuments' that were not the standard, I bet. I suppose we all have a wistful story of an elder who is spry beyond his years. I once took a 92 yr old neighbour, at his insistance, snowmobiling through the bush so that he could show me markers, etc, between his property and ours. He had a little trouble getting off the machine at the end of the exercise - he was riding behind me on my machine - but trotted off quite happily. Yeah.
ReplyDeleteMy husband is like that, although he is slowing down some these days. He's about 5'4" but in his younger days as a bricklayer he had quite the muscular build. He can still work rings around many younger men.
ReplyDeleteMy Dad was the same, until the second bad electrical burn when he was a lineman damaged his ankle pretty badly.
There's more to it than genetics. You have to be part of the program and do many things for good health.
ReplyDelete105? That is awesome! Well, that sure won’t be me. I already tire quickly, sorry to say. You were in surgery? I’ve missed so much since I’ve been gone from blogging. I’m not back yet, but just wanted to check in.
ReplyDeleteAge may mark their years, but not their spirit or stamina.
ReplyDeleteOne thought came to me as I read this. My family is of small people. My grandmother was 99 when she passed. My cousin on her 80th year spent a few months in Mongolia riding ponies and hunting with their eagles.
ReplyDeleteThere could be some truth to little spry people.
Maybe genetics. But maybe something tragic -- the Covid equivalent of the day. Do you know? 105 -- amazing. I am always amazed at people considerably older than I with more energy!
ReplyDeleteThey sure are! Great story!
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