Tuesday, February 17, 2026

The Sidewalk Rule

The sidewalk rule is an etiquette practice that originated in medieval times, where men would walk on the street side to protect women from waste and other hazards. This practice demonstrated chivalry and protection, forming part of a broader code of honor that guided social interactions. It was considered a man’s duty to protect his companion while walking, reflecting the expectations of the time and the law surrounding pedestrian safety.

The concept dates back to medieval chivalrous behavior, where protective actions towards women were expected from knights and gentlemen. Knights were guided by a code of honor that emphasized loyalty, bravery, and generosity, which evolved into a course of social norms for courteous behavior in a world where chivalry mattered. Sidewalk Rule Defined - The Accident Network Law Group

On our daily hobbles, I simply must walk on the street side of the sidewalk even when that results in Sue walking on my cane side, which can be a tiny bit awkward at times. However, neither of us can deal with me on the inside as in the photo.

My mother and I once encountered my beloved grade 5 teacher and her beau walking toward us. He was on the inside. My mother was scandalized, thus irrevocably searing the sidewalk rule into my young brain.  She couldn’t have been much more troubled had she witnessed a mugging  

I don't know if The Sidewalk Rule fell out of favour for some time, but if so, it is making a comeback.

The sidewalk rule has gained traction on social media ... as a test of chivalry in relationships and as part of a traditional course of dating etiquette. The rule suggests that a man should walk closest to the street when walking with a woman, positioning himself as a protector from oncoming traffic and other hazards. This simple act of chivalry has gained significant attention and sparked discussions about pedestrian safety, relationships, and etiquette.

The trend has been viewed millions of times, with many users sharing their own experiences and opinions on the matter. Women often praise men who follow this rule, viewing it as a test of a partner’s care ... Despite its seemingly simple nature, the sidewalk rule has raised important questions about the role of protection in relationships and the broader implications for pedestrian safety. Sidewalk Rule Defined - The Accident Network Law Group

Good intentions aside, winter conditions often shrink the sidewalks, making them too narrow to proceed side by side, so I am left to walk the respectful 6 paces behind my noble beauty.

Tough walking conditions


13 comments:

  1. I have never heard of this but spent the bulk of my childhood living on a gravel road with not a sidewalk within ten miles so perhaps I can be excused.

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  2. My Larry has always walked "street-side". It's just what a gentleman does...
    hugs
    Donna

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  3. With those six steps behind your beauty, you can admire your dear wife in all her glory.
    When I'm out with my husband, I automatically walk on the side away from traffic or in front of him – which is necessary because he's much taller than me… and there we are again…
    good visibility is good :-))
    Hug

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  4. There's also the restaurant and crowd rule where a gentleman goes in front to forge a path for the lady. I like that one.

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  5. I don't follow those rules all the time but I must say that I prefer to walk behind if the sidewalk is narrow.

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  6. I like the photo of Sue braving the path ahead of you...I will often go first with a group, and it's strange for me to tail along behind.

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  7. I knew that before you even said! Love the Sue pic!

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  8. I rarely walk on a sidewalk so I didn't even know about the rule. Makes sense though. If I was with a guy I detested I could push him into the street! ;)

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  9. Val, that's one reason women like this rule.

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  10. Another reason for the man to walk nearest the road was so that his sword arm was free to grab his sword and defend his lady. Even left-handers wear swords on the left.

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  11. Funny how these things stick with you - although I'm wondering if I've ever taught it to my kids? Of course when they were young I always had them on the "inside lane". Away from traffic. It tickles me that your mom was so offended by the breaking of the rule.

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  12. It will be interesting to see what young ones these days will do.

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  13. I don't necessarily follow this rule except when I'm walking with children. Now I'll have to watch John to see what he does. :)

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