- One Halloween blog post that I read awhile ago mentioned how elaborate Halloween costumes had become. That caused me to remember paper costumes. I wore a paper clown costume one year: when I was 7, I think. My paper pants didn't survive long. My mother told me to make the best of it by announcing myself as, "The clown who lost his pants." Paper costumes were definitely of a different era.
- With Lacey gone and with me eschewing breakfast these days, I have no reason to go downstairs in the morning. Ergo, I tend to forget morning vitamins and pills. I could get Alexa to remind me, but I know that I would tend to put her off and still forget whereas I could only ignore Lacey for so long.
- I try to prepare a dinner every week or so — one that will supply us with several meals. This one was a chicken casserole that I thought looked good on paper and video. It took some effort, but I managed to assemble it all and put it in the oven. Then I turned on the oven. The wrong oven! The lower oven instead of the upper one. The only thing that I can say about this faux pas is that is that what was required was more of a heating up than a cooking, so we just had to wait an extra half hour after moving the dish to the lower oven. But I was both disappointed and furious with myself over my lapse. I tried so hard and then did something stupid. And it wasn't just my mistake that irritated me, but the whole recipe was a mistake. It just wasn't very good. There is both time and expense involved in cooking a dish like this. I could have kicked myself.
- That unfortunate dinner does not enthrall me, and nor does my occasional phantosmia generally enthrall me. But while sitting in my chair playing my usual games and such one recent morning, I smelled, or rather I seemed to smell, a most pleasant odour. I asked my beloved if she were wearing a new fragrance. No, she wasn’t. I was not surprised because I had been noticing it when she was not nearby. (Yes spellcheck, phantosmia is word. You say it is so your very own little self here.)
- I have such a fragile body. Yesterday, I moved two fairly big flowerpots, and by nightfall my back was letting me know all about it. I hadn’t been trying to move mountains eh, just flowerpots, and just two of them, and not too very far. It's a wee bit disconcerting to have such a vulnerable body. It's odd because all of my vital inner organs seem to be in decent shape. Joints and muscle not so much.
Friday, November 14, 2025
Point Form: Fragility
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I don't understand why you would be kicking yourself over trying a new recipe...how were you to know it was not a good one. I frequently try new things. Sometimes we look at each other and agree that it is a recipe that needs to be lost.
ReplyDeleteIt's so frustrating when good intentions go astray, as your meal did.
ReplyDeleteAs far as fragile bodies go, I think we just have to devise different ways of doing the same jobs. Clearly, sometimes that involves employing someone to do them for us! 🤣😂
My attempt to improve my eating is having much the same frustrations. The menu plans are full of great recipes on line, but of course I want to avoid some ingredients, and add some that I have already. So far I have not used any except the one for my baked grouper with my own version of the topping, and it did yield 4 meals...as well as some of the sides which were used with different things as well. I'm glad your phantosmia gives you occasional good scents. Time for you to consider doing your word puzzles while doing exercises! I tried putting away clothes while marching in place! Keep your muscles active!
ReplyDeleteI forgot you are taking regular walks!
DeleteI don't mind the aging of my looks but the aging of the body I could do without. I understand what you are saying too well. You shouldn't be upset with yourself over the recipe. I've had plenty of failures and just write them off as a learning experience.
ReplyDeleteI am at this moment sitting on the sofa with a heating pad at my back which has been protesting ever since I did a few chores.
ReplyDeleteI have tried some recipes that we just couldn't eat so threw the food out. I guess that is why we all stick to the old faithfuls.
ReplyDeleteI admire you for trying new recipes and feel the same as you about any added exertion and the toll it takes on knees and back. I used to do so much more on a daily basis and was fine. You're not alone!
ReplyDeleteAlthough paper costumes were not a thing during my trick or treating prime, mostly we just purchased a plastic mask and then wore repurposed clothing for the rest of the costume. My costume were always some ghoulish creature face so it went with pretty much any article of clothing one wanted to wear. Much simpler than today's costumes for sure!
ReplyDeleteOh boy, haven't we all done that! I don't have 2 ovens--don't i wish!--but I have forgotten to turn on the oven or crackpot or roaster more than once! I dont see it as a sign if aging but more a sign of a very busy mind.
ReplyDeleteLosing strength, though, yeah, I hear you. I remember when I could carry 100 pounds, no problem. Now 30 feels way too heavy.
Aging is not an enjoyable process. Golden years? I think they should be called the Rust & Bust Years!
Rust & Bust Years
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I echo Margaret's comment. ♥️
ReplyDeleteGetting older is not fun. I used to be able to pick up really heavy things and now I just can't. I pulled a muscle in my back 2 nights ago just turning over in bed.
ReplyDeleteYour reflections weave humour, frustration, and tenderness into a quietly moving portrait of daily life’s small triumphs and trials
ReplyDeleteI have that feeling often that I'm not as strong as I once was, and I don't like it! I sympathize with the time you spent on your dish, it is such a big letdown. But it happens from time to time.
ReplyDeleteI was a paper witch, and the costume and I made it around the neighbourhood intact. My mother did not kid around; there was enough paper in the costume to clothe several kids besides me. I recall being much constricted.
ReplyDeleteI put my pills in old pill bottles with the labels stripped, a different shape and colour for each group. (I take too {censored} many pills). They sit in order on my bathroom counter. The bathroom is one place I am sure to go.
I bent over to pick up somthing on Wednesday and spent Thursday in a lot of pain. Being 80 plus sucks big time.
Keeping track of meds is something that too many of us have to do. I've just had my morning ones -- more than usual with that back problem and also a rump one which will be revealed in a subsequent post.
DeleteI hate it when a recipe is not great. It makes the effort such a waste of time and money.
ReplyDeleteSometimes it's hard to judge if you'll end up with a tasty dish
ReplyDeleteI think I would have really liked your mother! Quick on her feet with that result. We've all had recipes that look great, cost more than we wish and disappoint (oven not withstanding). I've done similar before, if it makes you feel any better -- not heating the oven enough or reading the directions wrong and doing the wrong temp. It happens. I finally rigged my meds to be at 11 and 11 (the before bed is easy) and since I'm usually online then, keep them right in front of me by the computer. But if I'm out of routine I have to use an alarm. The other day I was thinking about all the med stuff I do every day -- stuff down the throat, stuff in the nose, stuff in the ears, the foot brace. It gets frustrating and exhausting to have to be that self-aware.
ReplyDeleteYou are really going through it. I sympathize.
DeleteI just don't like cooking period, but I've done the same with recipes where they don't turn out well.
ReplyDeleteI hope you are feeling better.
I have only one oven. But I have been known to forget to turn it on! Do you do any weight or other resistance exercises? They're really helpful to keep you able to move and lift.
ReplyDeleteI have hand weights and do some stretching etc. We also get out for an almost daily walk. A weak back has been almost a lifelong issue.
DeleteI think all of us at this age are having some physical issues!
ReplyDeleteYou are to be commended for researching, purchasing the ingredients for, and executing a new dish! That is not easy! And not your fault at all that it wasn't any good.
ReplyDeleteAnd hey, just on Monday my husband bent over to open a lower cabinet at work and tweaked his back out, he feels your pain! When our bodies fail us at such basic tasks, it is so frustrating!
It's tough adapting to our bodies changes. Better than reading our names in the obits, though.
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