Saturday, November 08, 2025

Losing Track

Yesterday, I made a point of paying cash at the store. It is something that I just don't do. I prefer debit or credit because I figure whatever cash I am carrying should stay in my wallet in case of an emergency.

But it is Remembrance Day next week, so poppies are by checkouts everywhere. I wanted to purchase two poppies, one for me and one for Sue, but I wasn't about to stuff a twenty in the box.

So, I paid cash for my purchase, received the change, and then jammed a fiver through the tiny slot.

Minutes later, I pulled into my driveway, began to exit, and reached for the two poppies that I had placed on the passenger seat.

Except I hadn't. Not that time although I know that I had placed something there recently.

The fact of the matter is that I had left my donation for the poppies but not taken them.

I drove back. It's not far, just around the corner really.

Back at the cash and said to the guy, "You remember me, right?" I didn't want people to think that I was just grabbing poppies without donating.

He did remember me and said that he had wondered why I had donated but not taken any poppies. 

I took my two poppies and skulked off.

This is the kind of thing that I do regularly. I don't mean at stores particularly but just forgetting little things that I had intended to do but then forgotten. For example: I might go downstairs for something and come back upstairs empty-handed.

I would tell you more about some of the things that I forget, but, quite frankly my dears, I forget what they are.




27 comments:

  1. That is a familiar theme at this house too, AC. It’s in the air!

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  2. So familiar. Like even paying for the food and leaving without it! Noooo, I've never done that. Not often..

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  3. It happens to the best of us. Several years back, I bought a five pound package of hamburger for something or other. I paid for it and then drove home and didn't have it. I drove back to the store and it wasn't to be seen. I'm assuming some person behind me ended up with 5 pounds of free hamburger.

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    1. I am reminded that one day a blogger's husband left a bag containing thousands of dollars on the car roof. It was a long time ago, and they did recover the bag.

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  4. Well, we could all despair at this inevitable sign of aging...and possibly get a neurologist to tell us we're normal (like I did) - or we could just laugh at ourselves. If it's normal, it still certainly is frustrating!

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  5. I can't tell you how many times I've left my keys on the counter at the pharmacy or something similar elsewhere. It happens.

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  6. I know all too well about this, AC.

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  7. It is part of the golden years I guess. ;-)

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  8. Yep, I feel you! Same thing here, all.the.time.

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  9. Lol. You are trying to make me feel better, aren't you?

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  10. I have to agree with all of the other comments. LOL

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  11. As I get older, I forget too many things.

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  12. I once used the drive-through cash machine and forgot to take the money with me.

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  13. You are exhibiting a very common characteristic of seniors. I'm there too.

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  14. I think you were so focused on the process of getting the change and then donating that the poppies got lost in the shuffle.

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  15. I used to ask for a "doggie" bag to take restaurant leftovers home. I'd get it all ready, then forget to take it with me, leaving it on the table. Linda in Kansas

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  16. It’s often those small forgetful moments that end up reminding us most about kindness, intention, and simple humanity.

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  17. We age...happening to all of us but it's not fun.
    Hang in there!
    hugs
    Donna

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  18. It has to do with walking through a door because that’s when people tend to forget things.

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  19. It sure is normal! We just have to laugh.

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  20. You are just being human. I take something from one room to another and stop because I get distracted by something else and...well, when I get back to the original room I remember what I thought I was going to do.
    I like to say that creative people get distracted easily.

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  21. Our thoughts are preoccupied with more important things. But of course we do pay strict attention while driving, don't we?

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  22. I pay cash for most things.

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