Monday, June 22, 2026

From Whence and Where

After my Father's Day post showing dad and me, more than one commenter wondered where my height came from. It's a jolly good question, Take a look at this photo.


That's me with all of my living family on my wedding day in 1969. Before we left for the church, I had a friend take a family picture: my uncle (left), mother and father. My dad was the tallest of the three at 5'4". Rounded up, my mother was 5'1" but her brother, my uncle didn't quite make 5'.

And there I am, looming in the background, an aberration at almost 6'2".

From where and whence came I?

My paternal grandfather was also diminutive, somewhat stocky but not tall. Granny may have been taller but it is hard to tell because she had a dowager's hump from polio. My maternal grandmother was certainly not tall. However, my maternal grandfather was somewhat tall, probably 5'10" or maybe even 11". That's my best guess anyway since I haven’t seen him since I was ten years old. 

My kids aren't short, but they are not giants, child 2 probably being 5'10". I should ask them. 

That has made me recall a recent dream about child 2 where they were definitely taller than I. Well, I have shrunk by 3" so we might actually be seeing eye to eye, as it were. I should ask them now, and then we should stand together for a photo when we next meet. They live on the other side on the country, so I don't know when such a get-together might occur. They had a visit planned just a month or so ago, but back problems threw a wrench into the works — their back issue and not mine on that particular occasion.


8 comments:

  1. I'm the small person from a tall family, married a short man from a tiny family! I towered over my 4'10" mother in law. You must have got the good vitamins!

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  2. Im pretty sure height is also a sign of good nutrition for children. Just look at the generations that have many taller athletic kids since we’ve been around! Genetics and good food, nature, nurture!

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  3. Sounds like David. He is 6’1” and his brother, sister, father and mother around 5’3” tall.
    Ha, ha.

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  4. My paternal and maternal grandmothers were 5'10". Paternal grandfather 4" shorter and maternal grand 5'11". My mother was 5' and father 5'6". I'm 5'. Who knows? Mark's brothers are tall. Mark is 5'8".

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  5. I too am taller than everyone in my family. Also the only blonde and blue-eyed child. My brothers and sisters used to tease me that I am adopted. Makes me wonder about those genealogy tests, but does one really want to know?

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  6. I recognized your smile. I always wonder about height in family. I'm a 50/50 of mom and dad!

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  7. Well somewhere there was that tall gene in your family. LOL My mom was 5'8" all of my brothers were/are 5'10 and taller. My sister and I got the small gene. My sister was 5'2" and I am 5'1" My daughter the same my Son the same as my brothers. Then comes the tall gene. My youngest grandson is 6'5" where did that come from? I do like this photo of you.

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  8. I thought you were standing on a box! Funny how heights work out, you just never know. Although the difference you have over your Dad and Uncles is really a "jump".

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