Monday, July 27, 2026

Saturday Trip

On Saturday, Shauna and I drove 2.5 hours to visit my ex-brother-in-law, Brian, at his very rural abode. I hadn’t seen him for 8 years, mostly because of the ex designation and all of the concomitant complications therewith. As is evident by all of the green on the map, there are a lot of trees to pass by on the route from us in Carleton Place (right part of map) to Brian's (orange marker in Kawartha Lakes). Shauna took the somewhat quicker dark blue route, but Sue and I would often drive one of the two light blue routes when we had oodles of time at our disposal  


It was good to meet with Brian after so long and also good to see the property once again, for we have spent many happy recreational weeks there in the past. Of course, I had to take pictures. It was a terrible day or time of day for photos, but after 8 years it was a necessity.

First: people and dogs. There have always been dogs, but these two were new to me, and we got along well. Griz, the one on the left, both top and bottom, expected me to go on a woodsy walk with him (bottom left), but that was not to be. Leesi (bottom right) was the more touch-friendly one of the two.


In two of the above photos, we were standing in a lavender patch. Brian has created a lavender garden, actually two, over the past three years. It's a pretty impressive feat in the geographic conditions (soil and climate) that he has to deal with.  He has taken some marvellous photos in sunrise light, and maybe I will find and post one at the bottom,  but I did what I could on that day. The photo at the bottom left of the collage is of the secondary lavender bed.


Another thing that Brian has just begun is the raising of honey bees, The two 'hives' are in the left in the next composite. In the centre, I managed to snap a not-too-terrible pic of one of the flitting bees in the lavender. The photo on the right has nothing to do with lavender or bees but is the part of the river where we used to swim. We'd do down the bank on the bottom left of the image. The slope has become steeper over the years because it is the nip slope of the meander, so the river will cut in that direction (toward the camera). As always, this and all photos are embiggable with a click.


Photography is all about the light, and Brian certainly caught the light in the next photos, the first on one of the smokey days. The sun could not rise in a more opportune location.



Oops, I forgot to post this, Over the years, I enjoyed taking many photos of this old barn, and now I have been able to add one more to the collection.


16 comments:

  1. Bees and lavender are a great partnership. So he's your sister's former husband, I'm guessing. I didn't know you had a sister. Never mind me, I'm as nosy as a cat. That looks like a great place to visit and play with dogs, too!

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    1. Close. Sue’s sister. I was an Only. Sue had two sisters and one brother.

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  2. A lavender field! How lovely! Will he market it?

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    1. He advertises locally. It's not a heavily populated region, but he does get some paying visitors.

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  3. Thus far, I've never had any exes in my family to visit. The closest I come it my biological father and his family but they pretty much left my life when I was a little boy.

    My family used to raise bees, lots of them. I loved tasting all the honey created by various flowers to see what it tasted like. Was it light and delicate like white clover or strong and dark like goldenrod? I have never tasted honey made by lavender blooms but if I were there, I would buy a jar to try.

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    1. They are new. I don't know when he will try to get the honey. I should ask?

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  4. That had to smell so fantastic! And it's gorgeous. I'm so glad you were able to reconnect.

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  5. Wonderful shotS of beauty – I can imagine how wonderful it was to snow all that lavender also. Me too I’d like to know what lavender honey might taste like!

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  6. Beautiful and incredible photos, really impressive sunrise! Border Collies! They are so full of smarts and energy!

    Looks like a wonderful little farm in a blissful place.
    I did see all my ex's 10 years ago at my youngest son's wedding. The in laws were all sweet to me.
    I ignored and kindly tolerated the ex-hubby as much as possible.
    I'm glad you went!

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  7. He has been very busy. The lavender field looks lovely.

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  8. Absolutely stunning photos. What a lovely trip back to a place filled with so many memories. I enjoyed the way you captured not just the scenery but the stories behind the land, the lavender garden, the bees, and the old barn. It must have been special to return after 8 years and see how much the property has grown.

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  9. The lavender is beautiful. I've tried several times to grow it but it gets, or got too cold. The sky photo is fantastic. This looks like it was a pleasant visit.

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  10. It sounds like a marvellous trip. I can just imagine the scent of the lavender in the hot sun - wonderful. Bee-keeping appeals, but I've heard too many stories of colony collapse. That must be heart-breaking.

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  11. I am in awe of his lavender! I struggle every year to grow it, and invariably it does not over-winter. Sigh. I am so glad you visited your friend, and took that lovely trip down memory lane. And with dogs!

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  12. The photos of the lavender fields, both with dog and without are my favorite you've posted! Really gorgeous!

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