Monday, December 12, 2005

It Turned Out Well

Today, Cuppa and I were asked to join some neighbours for a Christmas concert at a casino, if you please. Doesn't seem like an unfortunate juxtaposition — casino and Christmas concert? The casino is about a 45 minute drive from here, across the Ottawa River into the province of Quebec. Well, it's 45 minutes if you don't get lost, but we needed an extra 15. It wasn't my fault, you know? I wasn't the lead car and can't be blamed — this time!


As soon as you cross into Quebec, you can't help but be aware of the differences. It's French over there. But as long as you have a good map and can read signs, you're okay. I mean to say, 5 reads the same in both languages, even if they call it an autoroute instead of a highway. And Saint Raymond Boulevard is still pretty recognizable as Boulevard St-Raymond.


Besides, two ladies of our small group of six speak French as their first language. So, when we did get lost and were forced to stop for directions, language was no barrier. It probably wouldn't have been in any case because the majority of Francophones of that region also speak English. There are certainly parts of Quebec where that isn't so, but most in these parts are bilingual. Would that you could say the same for us Anglos.


I seem to be making a short story long again, n'est ce pas (roughly translated: is that not so)? You see, I wasn't very enthused about going to a Christmas concert at a casino. But you know, it tuned out to be a very positive experience. Much of it was exuberant and cabaret style flamboyant, but O Holy Night now ... well, what more is there to say than to mention the title. We all recognize the majesty of the piece, and you can't sing it in anything but reverence wherever you are and whomever you might be.


In deference to the location, songs were sung in each language: several English songs followed by several French ones. Believe it or not, I generally liked the French songs better. Most of the English ones were what one might call, American Commercial. You know the type: White Christmas, Rudolph, Jingle Bells etc. While those might not all be great examples, what I frequently heard were the type of songs that were designed to be sung to audiences. To me, the French songs seemed to be the type that made you want to join in and sing along.


I appreciate listening to good music, but perhaps because I was brought up in hymn-singin' churches, I also like music of the spirit, music that beckons you to open yourself, join in, and belt it out. Maybe that's why I favour East Coast music. To me, much of it is infused with that same kind of spirit.


The long and the short of it is that I had a good time. I was dubious and hesitant, but I went, me and five women (the other guy chickened out), and I am glad of it.


I wonder how often we short-shrift ourselves by prejudging. I was tending to prejudge the occasion by the venue.


I wonder how often I have denied myself pleasure by not taking just a little bit of a risk. I put myself out there today when I was more than somewhat inclined to demur, but I am far from sorry that I decided to be neighbourly and to put myslef out there.


 

11 comments:

Bonita said...

Isn't it nice when our prejudgments turn out to be wrong, and something shines on its own unique merits. It disables all of our intrenched requirements. I'm glad you had such a good time.

Dale said...

Good for you, AC! I think I'd have turned my nose up at the idea of a casino Christmas concert. And I'd have mised out on a good show. I would, however, have enjoyed a motor trip "avec les cinq femmes."

mreddie said...

That is how memories are made. I'm glad that these will be on the good side - way to go! ec

defiant goddess said...

Sounds like you learned some pretty good lessons today. Good for you.

Lynn said...

I wouldn't have made it past the first gaming table.

Good for you.

Matt said...

Christmas Concert.. Casino.. hmmm.

I think I would have had to go just because of the paradox lol

Wash Lady said...

Oh, Holy Night...........my fav :)
My hubby is working on an arrangement of this piece this week.

Gina said...

Some of the best concerts/shows that I have ever seen have been at casinos!

But, you've got to take the good with the bad. Even some of the not so entertaining things I have been to provided some kind of nice memory at some point, even if it wasn't the event itself.

Valerie - Riding Solo said...

And there ya go, eh? The "expectations" thing again...LOL!

Simply Coll said...

Good for you for going A/C. It sounds very nice.

O Holy Night is one of my mom's favourites. I never sing it, or hear it without thinking of her.

tom said...

as I age, I find myself not-doing some stuff...it would be good to jump in with both feet and try it out,since the opportunities may be limited...still, no hang-gliding or bungee-jumping in my future..
thanks for the reminder to take that ocassional shot at something.